Ahh, but we missed you. So now the love afafir is real. The fact the relationship is no longer evenly reciprocated tells us as much. Enter, the granny panties , and now we must determine if exchanging our beer goggles for our plain old prescriptions will allow the pendulum to swing far enough back to help us find love that isn't based on newness. I bet discussing our feelings openly and listening to each other could help us out. Hope we all have learned how to do that. And to those who might be inclined to think otherwise, communicating definitely is NOT(emphasis mine) a sign of weakness. Yes we can.